Restart monit after remove action

Restart monit when removing files from monit conf.d. A reload is right
out.

See rcbops/chef-cookbooks#722

(cherry picked from commit cf8cdaf22e4fb6c89d7eaecfeee952f9a2164b07)
Change reload to restart so add/remove do the same thing in one converge

(cherry picked from commit c851e3b62f3286a252cfde4c825c646b414e0bb8)