cluster: use round-robin load balancing

Empirical evidence suggests that OS-level load balancing (that is,
having multiple processes listen on a socket and have the operating
system wake up one when a connection comes in) produces skewed load
distributions on Linux, Solaris and possibly other operating systems.

The observed behavior is that a fraction of the listening processes
receive the majority of the connections. From the perspective of the
operating system, that somewhat makes sense: a task switch is expensive,
to be avoided whenever possible. That's why the operating system likes
to give preferential treatment to a few processes, because it reduces
the number of switches.

However, that rather subverts the purpose of the cluster module, which
is to distribute the load as evenly as possible. That's why this commit
adds (and defaults to) round-robin support, meaning that the master
process accepts connections and distributes them to the workers in a
round-robin fashion, effectively bypassing the operating system.

Round-robin is currently disabled on Windows due to how IOCP is wired
up. It works and you can select it manually but it probably results in
a heavy performance hit.

Fixes #4435.
npm: Upgrade to 1.2.21
2013.05.13, Version 0.11.2 (Unstable)

* uv: Upgrade to 0.11.2

* V8: Upgrade to 3.19.0

* npm: Upgrade to 1.2.21

* build: Makefile should respect configure --prefix (Timothy J Fontaine)

* cluster: use round-robin load balancing (Ben Noordhuis)

* debugger, cluster: each worker has new debug port (Miroslav Bajtoš)

* debugger: `restart` with custom debug port (Miroslav Bajtoš)

* debugger: breakpoints in scripts not loaded yet (Miroslav Bajtoš)

* event: EventEmitter#setMaxListeners() returns this (Sam Roberts)

* events: add EventEmitter.defaultMaxListeners (Ben Noordhuis)

* install: Support $(PREFIX) install target directory prefix (Olof Johansson)

* os: Include netmask in os.networkInterfaces() (Ben Kelly)

* path: add path.isAbsolute(path) (Ryan Doenges)

* stream: Guarantee ordering of 'finish' event (isaacs)

* streams: introduce .cork/.uncork/._writev (Fedor Indutny)

* vm: add support for timeout argument (Andrew Paprocki)
Merge branch 'v0.11.2-release'
Now working on 0.11.3
deps: upgrade c-ares to 1.10.0