etc: rework of how libuv is integrated into the build

- thanks to work in libuv's upstream, we can call libuv's Makefile directly
with parameters, instead of descending in gyp-uv madness and generating
our own.
rt/std: update of libuv API glue for libuv submodule update
build: tweak rt.mk, as per graydon.. CFLAGS had to stay
build: point libuv at olsonjeffery/libuv, temporarily
build: ifdef for mingw/non-mingw builds