Removed date caching to fix delay in exit

Without this patch, there can be up to a second delay between the time the
server is closed and the time the node process is exited, because the utcDate() function
in OutgoingMessage was doing a setTimeout() to update the cached
date/time.

This won't matter as much for production servers, but should have a bigger
impact on the tests.

If it turns out that the date/time caching was not a premature
optimization and should be retained, an `.unref()` should be added to the setTimeout() timer.

I worked on this during nodeconf2013 -- @isaacs nailed down the root problem and @piscisaureus helped quite a bit.