fzap_cursor_move_to_key() should drop l_rwlock

Callers of zap_deref_leaf() must be careful to drop leaf->l_rwlock
since that function returns with the lock held on success.  All other
callers drop the lock correctly but it seems fzap_cursor_move_to_key()
does not.  This may block writers or cause VERIFY failures when the
lock is freed.

Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #1215
Closes zfsonlinux/spl#143
Closes zfsonlinux/spl#97
Add d_clear_d_op() compatibility

Added d_clear_d_op() helper function which clears some flags and the
registered dentry->d_op table.  This is required because d_set_d_op()
issues a warning when the dentry operations table is already set.
For the .zfs control directory to work properly we must be able to
override the default operations table and register custom .d_automount
and .d_revalidate callbacks.

Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Ned Bass <bass6@llnl.gov>
Closes #1230