newrelic: use server.activation_id and put it at the beginning
(cherry picked from commit 638b8b51f91a84f41bed378462593608da9620fd)
Fixed activation_id in promise handles.

Fixes the sketch from being stuck in "being activated" status forever.
(cherry picked from commit d31287e02e0844ef804f9202af5af08a11c9d960)