Elaborate upon "consider their feelings"

That phrase seems particularly ineffective and perhaps patronising.
It also doesn't cover the broader problem of e.g. unwelcome
approaches from recruiters. To me it feels like the underlying
principle is being considerate about what people want to happen,
what they want to hear about, and how they want to spend their
evening at the pub or time on the mailing list or whatever.
Remove "feelings" altogether by splitting out time & attention

As per @aanand's suggestion.
Merge pull request #2 from lrug/be-considerate

Elaborate upon "consider their feelings"