increased time to handle slower networks

Ignore-this: e9852d22b8dc3b5b853be4d3d962cebb

Some networks are a little too slow for my taste. Adding longer times...

darcs-hash:20131204204057-c21fe-e76105442f8fbb799e8a674c19a10e069e8c12bc
updated graphs in debug window

Ignore-this: ba69974c71e9752cc986db3fae68d9a1

darcs-hash:20131206050051-c21fe-1f20e97c715bc75b51abf47ead87411f12e0c8db
added some asserts and bug fixes for connecting state

Ignore-this: a8a1ce7e53285174782c3ed33679ae0

darcs-hash:20131206050132-c21fe-37b3f7f5855ddb773e1821a2eab3bbbf31b34a9a
Merge branch 'master' into moc_parse