Cleanup a bit of exception/error handling between the VM and the debugger

We had two similar-but-different functions for getting a notification from the VM about an exception. Cleaned that up by using the proper one for a thrown exception where appropriate, and moving the old one into a hook (like the other VM->debugger hooks) specifically for error messages.
Remove ArrayData::getIndex virtual methods.

They aren't used anymore, except to implement isVectorData(),
which we can make pure-virtual and implement more efficiently
in each subclass of ArrayData.
vector and map get/set/isset specialization in IR

specialized the IR instruction CGetM/SetM/IssetM for Vector and Map. IR now generates specialized code in those situation similar to what is done with Array.
don't call auotloader with blank name

I debated putting in an assert in the autoloader but I'm worried that will break many things. Lets just plug this for now.

Closes #803
allow constants in systemlib

The problem was a few:

* All constant declarations were wrapped in a statement list. The merge-only check was allowing top-level `define()`s but not top level statement lists. I unwrapped them. I have no idea why it was done. Probalby just cargo cult programming.
* When converting a UnitEmitter to a Unit we only allowed constants in RepoAuthoritative mode and not systemlib mode.
* Systemlib constants weren't being set as UnitMergeKindPersistentDefine
* UnitMergeKindPersistentDefine constants weren't being marked mergeOnly when pulling out of a repro
Add back a necessary null check

Diff 817612 added a null check, but inadvertently removed a null check.
Fix deep copying for Sets

This logic got messed up somehow during rebasing and we were missing a
case for Set inside collectionDeepCopyTV(). This diff fixes the issue.
Cleanup small stepping

Small stepping, which is stepping over sub-expressions (kinda), worked but was a little goofy. The mode was set on the client, passed over with control flow commands, placed on the execution context, then retrieved from there and used by those same flow commands. Removed the execution context part of it, since it was useless, and factored grabbing the offsets into the flow cmds where they belong instead of doing it all the time.

The run cmd also had some notion of small stepping, but you'll note it was never sent over the wire. Nuked that, since it never mattered anyway.
Fix issue with XHP and keywords
Fixed cleanup/exception handling for vector operations.

Vector statements ending with a SetProp now properly free
         memory when run with JIT enabled.  Additionally, in both
         JIT and interpreted mode memory will still be freed if
         exceptions are thrown during evaluation of vector operations.
Optimize FPassM for Vector and Map

Added FPassM to the instruction optimized for Vector and Map. It reuses the code for CGetM.
Store variable arguments in optional local

Save 8 bytes of m_args and its initialization for Continuations without
func_get_args() call (does not save real memory due to 16-byte alignment).
Store variable arguments in optional local.
Get rid of BuiltinSymbols at runtime

We were using BuiltinSymbols at runtime to identify
potential FCallBuiltin sites. Instead, we can lookup the Func*,
which already has all the information we need.
Fix TestExtSocket flakiness

It picked a random starting port, then incremented
for each test. If it happened to collide with an existing
port, it failed. Make it try 20 different ports before giving
up and failing.
Better reffiness checks

While debugging a sandbox crash, I spent some time looking at a huge
sequnce of conditional masks, compares and branches that didnt seem
to belong in the code I was debugging. Finally realized that it was
a reffiness check. It looked way too complicated, so I investigated.

Part of the problem was that we were avoiding a malloc in the case
of a zero param function at the expense of an extra check.

Instead, this diff always sets up at least 64 bits worth of m_refBitVec.
But by using the space set aside for the pointer in Func::m_shared it
avoids a malloc for any function with fewer than 65 arguments, and
avoids the numParams check for the first 64 parameters.

In addition, the existing code was spitting out a generic test for
the guard condition - (mask & bits) == value - where mask and value
are known constants. Since the most common case is that value == 0
(all the parameters are expected to be by value), we can usually omit
the compare. In addition, since most functions only have a small
number of parameters, we can usually get away with 8 bit, or 32
bit operations.

The result is that for a typical function (fewer than 64 args, args
expected to be by value) the reffiness guard is now

  test <mask>, Func::m_refBitVec[0]
  jne exit

Rather than:

  move <mask>, reg1
  xor reg2, reg2
  cmp 1, Func::m_numParams
  jnl ok
  test AttrVarArgs, Func::m_attrs
  jne exit
  jmp done
ok:
  load reg3, Func::m_refBitVec[0]
  and mask, reg3
  cmp reg3, reg2
  jne exit
done:
Delete all the non-variant Variant::same overloads

Step one.
delete Variant::same, implement same(CVarRef, CVarRef) in terms of tvSame

Step two.  Leaving the Variant::same methods as deleted for
now because I'm worried about the implicit conversion operators to
other types that support same.
Prune some unused/barely used functions from type_conversion.h @override-unit-failures
Delete same() overloads that don't involve VM types

Don't really need these anymore now that we're not generating
C++.
Remove mostly unused instanceOf() function

We don't need to overload this on types anymore.