ReliableProxy handling when tunnel goes away

ReliableProxy handling when tunnel goes away.  Fixes #2731

- Add ReliableProxyProxy to proxy and manage lifecycle of ReliableProxy
- Enhancements to ReliableProxy to support ReliableProxyProxy (also works without ReliableProxyProxy).

This is the initial checkin for this enhancement to get feedback.   This is my first contribution to Akka so I'm sure there's a ton of stuff that I'm missing/need to fix.

To do 
- Remote Deathwatch support (code/comments based on Akka 2.1)
- Decide if API should change, default actor constructor params no longer supported
- Tests
- Reference docs
- Feedback