Assert presence of "frozen" in error message, not the full MRI message.

Related to all the other issues regarding message independent assertions
to make Rails compatible with other Ruby implementations other than MRI.

The best way here would be to have a specific error raised when modifying
frozen objects, like FrozenObjectError or something. But since Ruby
doesn't provide such a thing, we must limit the assertion to the lowest
common denominator, which is word "frozen".
Allow methodas arity below -1 in assert_responds.

Every method from MRI'score classes is written in C. This means
Method#arity always returns -1 for methods with a variable number of
arguments. This is not the case with Rubinius, where, for example
Array#slice! is implemented in Ruby and has arity -2, since is
defined as: def slice!(start, length = undefined)