pthread: Fix deadlock during thread initialization

Sometimes, if pthread_create() failed, then pthread_cond_wait() could
accidentally be called in the worker threads after the uninit function
had already called pthread_cond_broadcast(), leading to a deadlock.

Don't call pthread_cond_wait() if c->done is set.

Signed-off-by: Derek Buitenhuis <derek.buitenhuis@gmail.com>
(cherry picked from commit 1a5a6ac01b0ad2cf3d2128372ea41f3c1cfc2d3f)
pthread: Avoid spurious wakeups

pthread_wait_cond can wake up unexpectedly (Wikipedia: Spurious_wakeup).

The FF_THREAD_SLICE thread mechanism could spontaneously execute
jobs or allow the caller of avctx->execute to return before all
jobs were complete.

Test both cases to ensure the wakeup is real.

Signed-off-by: Ben Jackson <ben@ben.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Niedermayer <michaelni@gmx.at>
Signed-off-by: Derek Buitenhuis <derek.buitenhuis@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Luca Barbato <lu_zero@gentoo.org>
(cherry picked from commit 311583e7798237be5cc531d672a9e37f8c729d83)