Cluster: turn old master into a replica of node that failed over.

So when the failing master node is back in touch with the cluster,
instead of remaining unused it is converted into a replica of the
new master, ready to perform the fail over if the new master node
will fail at some point.

Note that as a side effect clients with stale configuration are now
not an issue as well, as the node converted into a slave will not
accept queries but will redirect clients accordingly.
Cluster: add sender flags in cluster bus messages header.

Sender flags were not propagated for the sender, but only for nodes in
the gossip section. This is odd and in the next commits we'll need to
get updated flags for the sender node, so this commit adds a new field
in the cluster messages header.

The message header is the same size as we reused some free space that
was marked as 'unused' because of alignment concerns.
Cluster: new flag PROMOTED introduced.

A slave node set this flag for itself when, after receiving authorization
from the majority of nodes, it turns itself into a master.

At the same time now this flag is tested by nodes receiving a PING
message before reconfiguring after a failover event. This makes the
system more robust: even if currently there is no way to manually turn
a slave into a master it is possible that we'll have such a feature in
the future, or that simply because of misconfiguration a node joins the
cluster as master while others believe it's a slave. This alone is now
no longer enough to trigger reconfiguration as other nodes will check
for the PROMOTED flag.

The PROMOTED flag is cleared every time the node is turned back into a
replica of some other node.
Cluster: master node must clear its hash slots when turning into a slave.

When a master turns into a slave after a failover event, make sure to
clear the assigned slots before setting up the replication, as a slave
should never claim slots in an explicit way, but just take over the
master slots when replacing its master.
Cluster: clear the PROMOTED slave directly into clusterSetMaster().

This way we make sure every time a master is turned into a replica
the flag will be cleared.