Bump up timeout delays some more in timeouts isolation test.

The buildfarm members using -DCLOBBER_CACHE_ALWAYS still don't like this
test.  Some experimentation shows that on my machine, isolationtester's
query to check for "waiting" state takes 2 to 2.5 seconds to bind+execute
under -DCLOBBER_CACHE_ALWAYS.  Set the timeouts to 5 seconds to leave some
headroom for possibly-slower buildfarm critters.

Really we ought to fix the "waiting" query, which is not only horridly
slow but outright wrong in detail; and then maybe we can back off these
timeouts.  But right now I'm just trying to get the buildfarm green again.
Allow extracting machine-readable object identity

Introduce pg_identify_object(oid,oid,int4), which is similar in spirit
to pg_describe_object but instead produces a row of machine-readable
information to uniquely identify the given object, without resorting to
OIDs or other internal representation.  This is intended to be used in
the event trigger implementation, to report objects being operated on;
but it has usefulness of its own.

Catalog version bumped because of the new function.