tls: ignore .shutdown() syscall error

Quote from SSL_shutdown man page:

  The output of SSL_get_error(3) may be misleading,
  as an erroneous SSL_ERROR_SYSCALL may be flagged even though
  no error occurred.

Also, handle all other errors to prevent assertion in `ClearError()`.
tls: invoke write cb only after opposite read end

Stream's `._write()` callback should be invoked only after it's opposite
stream has finished processing incoming data, otherwise `finish` event
fires too early and connection might be closed while there's some data
to send to the client.

see #5544
uv: Upgrade to v0.10.9
tls: Add `secureProtocol` docs

Add `secureProtocol` parameter docs to the tls.connect method.
https: Add `secureProtocol` docs

Add `secureProtocol` parameter docs to the https.request method.
doc: sending dgram handles only works on unix