submodule: add 'deinit' command

With "git submodule init" the user is able to tell git he cares about one
or more submodules and wants to have it populated on the next call to "git
submodule update". But currently there is no easy way he could tell git he
does not care about a submodule anymore and wants to get rid of his local
work tree (except he knows a lot about submodule internals and removes the
"submodule.$name.url" setting from .git/config together with the work tree
himself).

Help those users by providing a 'deinit' command. This removes the whole
submodule.<name> section from .git/config either for the given
submodule(s) (or for all those which have been initialized if '.' is
given. Fail if the current work tree contains modifications unless forced.
Complain when for a submodule given on the command line the url setting
can't be found in .git/config, but nonetheless don't fail.

Add tests and link the man pages of "git submodule deinit" and "git rm"
to assist the user in deciding whether removing or unregistering the
submodule is the right thing to do for him.

Signed-off-by: Jens Lehmann <Jens.Lehmann@web.de>