init, upstart: prevent daemons being started by both

There can be only one init system starting a daemon. If there is a
host entry in ceph.conf for a daemon, sysvinit would try to start it
even if the daemon's directory did not include a sysvinit file. This
preserves backwards compatibility with older installs using sysvinit,
but if an upstart file is present in the daemon's directory, upstart
will try to start them, regardless of host entries in ceph.conf.

If there's an upstart file in a daemon's directory and a host entry
for that daemon in ceph.conf, both sysvinit and upstart would attempt
to manage it.

Fix this by only starting daemons if the marker file for the other
init system is not present. This maintains backwards compatibility
with older installs using neither sysvinit or upstart marker files,
and does not break any valid configurations. The only configuration
that would break is one with both sysvinit and upstart files present
for the same daemon.

Backport: emperor, dumpling
Reported-by: Tim Spriggs <tims@uahirise.org>
Signed-off-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>
Merge pull request #893 from jdurgin/wip-init-highlander

init, upstart: prevent daemons being started by both

Reviewed-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>