add missing link separator
fix deciding-to-hide contacts bug

was counting rows and expecting them to be 1, when it should have been counting tables.
tiny layout change
don't test on resultset (it's always true)

instead should be testing on .count
add styling to flagged not-found results
update langauge describing flagging

Correct the incorrect assertion that this has any affect: it doesn't (but adding to the abuse table does)
clarify presentation on lagged users page

now shows which flagged users are in abuse table, which seems important
(separate issue #523 to make managing and indeed viewing abuse table)