set with_disabled_column in classes where it is missing

Set with_disabled_column in classes that have a disabled column in
the database but the flag is missing in the collection class.

The following classes will NOT get with_disabled_column set even
though the corresponding database table has a disabled column:

RT::Tickets
- Will be dealt with in 4.2 by dropping the column

RT::CachedGroupMembers
- all use cases of this lib need reviewed before adding

RT::ObjectCustomFieldValues
- Will be dealt with in 4.2 by renaming the flag.

See issues:20766
Merge branch '4.0/add-with-disabled-column' into 4.0-trunk