Rework digesting and outputting files

So in using Dassets in beta, a few design choices proved to be cumbersome:

* having to output digested files to a dir to check them in seemed unnecessary
* having to run a "digest" cmd every time files changed is a pain

So, to alleviate some of this pain I have reworked both how digesting and outputting (or "caching") digested asset files works:

* the middleware serves matching asset files, if they exists
 * first checks if path info looks like a digested asset file (fast)
 * if it does, looks up the asset file and checks if it exists (it has source that exists) (slower)
* asset files compile their source content on demand
* this means all assets served by middleware are freshly compiled
* the Dassets `[]` operator also returns asset files
 * this means anything accessed with `[]` has been freshly fingerprinted
* removed output file handling in the asset file
 * this means that all content and fingerprint is re-computed for each new asset file (or each new `[]` invocation)
* altered the `output_path` config handling
 * made it optional and `nil` by default
* source files only write output files if an output path has been configured.
* removed the digests file completely (unnecessary in this design)
* removed the cache cmd completely (unnecessary in this design)