erp5: Stop using slapos.cookbook:haproxy .

Fixes backend maxconn value: it's now equal to zope's number of threads.
Instead, generate configuration file from template and wrapper from
stand-alone recipe.
One local-only feature is lost: haproxy-ctl command is not present, but its
usage should be rare enough to not be a problem now. Socket is present
anyway, so any tool able to access a unix socket would do (ex: socat).