pop3: Added support for the STLS capability (Part Three)

Added honoring of the tls_supported flag when starting a TLS upgrade
rather than unconditionally attempting it. If the use_ssl flag is set
to CURLUSESSL_TRY and the server doesn't support TLS upgrades then the
connection will continue to authenticate. If this flag is set to
CURLUSESSL_ALL then the connection will complete with a failure as it
did previously.