feature #2009: Allow VMs stuck in ACTIVE, LCM_INIT to be deleted
(cherry picked from commit d6572832e23a49bdb861b31d8132596deb754844)
feature #2009: Fix onevm help (--with failure => --failure)
(cherry picked from commit 8b84eb8fa2e5f6426b4546a4dfcd1b9d12c3fc60)