updated vdr-frontend to check for plugin wakeup events
add dbusTimer initialisation
change gid for XBMC upstart job

http://www.vdr-portal.de/board60-linux/board14-betriebssystem/board96-yavdr/p1127785-xbmc-frodo-mit-xvdr-und-vnsi-f%C3%BCr-yavdr-0-5/#post1127785
fix crash on empty dbus2vdr Plugin list
change order of wait-for-job-state and check for standalone mode
update lirc socket handling