various test updates for _WidgetsInTemplateMixin, _TemplatedMixin

1. Move _WidgetsInTemplateMixin lifecycle test from _TemplatedMixin.html to
_WidgetsInTemplateMixin.html

2. Remove _WidgetsInTemplateMixin tests involving TabContainer behavior since
above test checks startup() call more directly.  Refs #9348.

3. Don't depend on the click handling being internally implemented as an onClick()
method.  Reference click events as "click" rather than "onClick".
Fix regression on IE10 clicking blank screen to close drop down.

The e.preventDefault() call on MSPointerDown prevents the button from getting focus,
so I disabled it for that case.   This is obviously a minimal fix.   Other approaches
include:

  1. remove the e.preventDefault() call for all cases
  2. make focus manager listen for touch events in the capture phase rather than the
bubbling phase, to avoid missing the event due to a stopPropagation() call.   it used
to do this except for IE6-8, but I normalized the behavior in 9965406.

Fixes #17262, refs #13048, #13341.