fix quoting non-strings

Closes #13444
Merge pull request #13451 from dmathieu/quoting_non_strings

Fix typecasting array of integers
CHANGELOG entry for #13451. [ci skip]
Add missing av/railtie require
Merge pull request #13457 from strzalek/add-missing-av-railtie

Add missing av/railtie require
added test cases for Resolver#connection_url_to_hash
Merge pull request #13446 from kuldeepaggarwal/resolver-test-cases

Resolver test cases
On destroying do not touch destroyed belongs to association.

Fixes: #13445
Merge pull request #13455 from jetthoughts/13445_fix_touch_destroyed_record

On destroying do not touch destroyed belongs to association.
Fix comment example in AR enum [ci skip]
Tell how to Create a Database in Error Message

Currently if you attempt to use a database that does not exist  you get an error:

```
PG::ConnectionBad FATAL:  database "db_error" does not exist
```

The solution is easy, create and migrate your database however new developers may not know these commands by memory. Instead of requiring the developer to search for a solution, tell them how to fix the problem in the error message:

```
ActiveRecord::NoDatabase: FATAL:  database "db_error" does not exist
Run `$ bin/rake db:create db:migrate` to create your database
```

Active Record should not know about `rake db:migrate` so this additional information needs to come from the railtie. Potential alternative implementation suggestions are welcome.