add NO_AUTO_LINK, NO_AUTO_DEP, and NO_AUTO_EXPORT

These apply to the `cs_add_executable` and `cs_add_library` macros. The `NO_AUTO_LINK` does not link against `catkin_LIBRARIES` automatically. The `NO_AUTO_DEP` option does not automatically depend on `catkin_EXPORTED_TARGETS`, and the `NO_AUTO_EXPORT` only applies to libraries and does not automatically export a library into `cs_export` and therefore not into `catkin_package`.