Improve the performance of Live TV embedded in the Program Guide.

Most of the Program Guide's DB and backend queries are moved out of
the UI loop into a background helper thread, to minimize the chance
of the embedded Live TV window stuttering.

More work can and should be done to pre-cache scheduler data and
channel tuning status, and to have the backend invalidate/update it
when there are changes.

The background computation introduces some guide navigation UI
oddities, where the expensive-to-compute elements (the list of
channels) update on the screen slower than other elements.

There is still some slight stuttering on a single-core ION frontend,
but most frontends should see a vast or complete reduction in Guide
navigation stuttering.

Refs #11020

(cherry picked from commit 7f2140ce062ade5a5523565b469ff58ada9c0d0d)

Conflicts:
    mythtv/programs/mythfrontend/guidegrid.cpp
Update ABI version after 1b16c65f465588a8991b730fb23ef0d1c61ed181.