Merge git_buf and git_buffer

This makes the git_buf struct that was used internally into an
externally available structure and eliminates the git_buffer.

As part of that, some of the special cases that arose with the
externally used git_buffer were blended into the git_buf, such as
being careful about git_buf objects that may have a NULL ptr and
allowing for bufs with a valid ptr and size but zero asize as a
way of referring to externally owned data.