SERVER-7940 handle SSL_ERROR_WANT_READ from SSL_Connect()
SERVER-8243 unify return code from unhandled exception shell: Windows vs. Linux
fix ssl unit test on Windows

We can't shut down the server on Windows because it attempts to connect to the
server and run shutdown, which it can't [yet] do if the server is listening for
ssl connections (unimplemented).
disable dur_passthrough.js on 32 bit platforms so builders don't run out of VM.
buildbot type_config_version_test fix test for strict optional fields
SERVER-939 abilitiy to distribute collections in a single db

Fixed test failure due to uninitialized flag in the mock cursor.
disable connections_opened.js in parallel suite
SERVER-5228 SERVER-8104 fix unit test as access in reduce function is restricted again