adjust to https://java.net/jira/browse/JSR_333-71

there where a few inconsistencies in the doc, leading to misinterpretation.

* for the event types, jackalope is already supporting PROPERTY_CHANGED (in violation to the old API, this is now corrected)
* that the types are filtered using globs and not just with isNodeType means we need to adjust jackalope. this however is no break on php code level, the interface stays the same, only semantics change a bit (accepting more parameters than before). i will try to do a PR for that soon.