Dependency.expand_dependencies

Move Formula.expand_dependencies into the Dependency class, and extend
it to allow arbitrary filters to be applied when enumerating deps.

When supplied with a block, expand_dependencies will yield a [dependent,
dependency] pair for each dependency, allowing callers to filter out
dependencies that may not be applicable or useful in a given situation.

Deps can be skipped by simple calling Dependency.prune in the block,
e.g.:

  Dependency.expand_dependencies do |f, dep|
    Dependency.prune if dep.to_formula.installed?
  end

The return value of the method is the filtered list.

If no block is supplied, a default filter that omits optional or
recommended deps based on what the dependent formula has requested is
applied.

Formula#recursive_dependencies is now implemented on top of this,
allowing FormulaInstaller to exact detailed control over what deps are
installed. `brew missing` and `brew upgrade` can learn to use this to
apply the installed options set when expanding dependencies.

Move Formula.expand_deps and Formula#recursive_deps into compat, because
these methods do not respect the new optional and recommended tags and
thus should no longer be used.
FormulaInstaller: make tab an attr, but never a parameter
FormulaInstaller: don't install bottle if options were passed
FormulaInstaller: allow formulae to pass options to deps

Formulae can now pass build options to dependencies. The following
syntax is supported:

  depends_on 'foo' => 'with-bar'
  depends_on 'foo' => ['with-bar', 'with-baz']

If a dependency is already installed but lacks the required build
options, an exception is raised. Eventually we may be able to just stash
the existing keg and reinstall it with the combined set of used_options
and passed options, but enabling that is left for another day.
FormulaInstaller: construct new ARGV from an Options collection

The array of options that is passed to the spawned build process is a
combination of the current ARGV, options passed in by a dependent
formula, and an existing install receipt. The objects that are
interacting here each expect the resulting collection to have certain
properties, and the expectations are not consistent.

Clear up this confusing mess by only dealing with Options collections.
This keeps our representation of options uniform across the codebase.

We can remove BuildOptions dependency on HomebrewArgvExtension, which
allows us to pass any Array-like collection to Tab.create. The only
other site inside of FormulaInstaller that uses the array is the #exec
call, and there it is splatted and thus we can substitute our Options
collection there as well.
missing: ignore unused optional and recommended deps
uses: utilize modern dependency API
upgrade: offload dependency expansion to FormulaInstaller

Now that FormulaInstaller does dependency expansion the _right_ way,
avoid duplicating the logic in upgrade. Instead, offload it to the
installer, which will generate an exception in check_install_sanity that
we can safely ignore when formulae in the outdated list are upgraded as
part of the dependency tree of another outdated formula.
Replace usages of recursive_deps with recursive_dependencies
Add "depends_on :clt"
Tag Xcode and CLT requirements as build-time

This way they can be skipped when installing bottles.
Fix Dependencies -> Array conversion
upgrade: use standard Tab accessor

Yes, the formula object does refer to a version that has not yet been
installed, but we were not looking into Formula#prefix, but #linked_keg,
which is version agnostic (since the original patch was committed, we
Tab#for_formula learned to look into #opt_prefix as well). The rest of
the logic is already embedded in the Tab accessors.