More git_diff_find_similar improvements

- Add new GIT_DIFF_FIND_EXACT_MATCH_ONLY flag to do similarity
  matching without using the similarity metric (i.e. only compare
  the SHA).
- Clean up the similarity measurement code to more rigorously
  distinguish between files that are not similar and files that
  are not comparable (previously, a 0 could either mean that the
  files could not be compared or that they were totally different)
- When splitting a MODIFIED file into a DELETE/ADD pair, actually
  make a DELETED/UNTRACKED pair if the right side of the diff is
  from the working directory.  This prevents an odd mix of ADDED
  and UNTRACKED files on workdir diffs.
Add more diff rename detection tests

This adds a bunch more rename detection tests including checks
vs the working directory, the new exact match options, some more
whitespace variants, etc.

This also adds a git_futils_writebuffer helper function and uses
it in checkout.  This is mainly added because I wanted an easy
way to write out a git_buf to disk inside my test code.