Remove size alias for length validation

Removed ```The `size` helper is an alias for `length`.``` line. If you use this "nonexist" helper, you will get an error message like this: 

```
ArgumentError: Unknown validator: 'SizeValidator'
...
```

Maybe wanted to mean ```validates_size_of``` helper as an alias for ```validates_length_of``` helper.
the preloader for the RHS has all the preloaded records, so ask it
simplify populating the ordering hash
Merge pull request #12536 from sbagdat/patch-1

Remove size alias for length validation