Release cleanup

@kares @arunagw Let me know what you two think about this as the base of a 1.2.6 release.  It requires a java property to disable the auto-load, but allows unmodified Torquebox to work.

In the 2.0 series (that I'd like to start prepping on once this driver load issue is worked out) I'd like to remove the property read and just disable auto-load all together.