!act #3581 Add Tcp.CompoundWrite, some cleanup

Moves `def ack: Event` and `def wantsAck: Boolean` from the `Tcp.WriteCommand` type down to the newly introduced `Tcp.CompactWriteCommand`, which breaks existing code depending on these.
Additionally `Tcp.WriteCommand` now has a few additional methods (`+:`, `++:`, prepend) and a companion object.
=doc #3581 Add "Writing to a connection" section to IO docs