nsqd: more context cleanup
Merge pull request #240 from mreiferson/more_context_240

nsqd: more context cleanup
nsqd: dont alloc huge backing array for HTTP /mput

if a message is kept around (inflight, deferred, etc.)
and was part of a large /mput, the entire backing
array for that message body's slice was being retained
(preventing it from being GCd).

fix by refactoring /mput so that messages are allocated in
separately read chunks.

also, while in here make /mput atomic by validating
all messages up front before pushing to the topic.
(matching TCP MPUB behavior)
address comments