VSFilter: Fix and update the blacklist.

- Ensure the blacklisting is applied as soon as possible when VSFilter tries to join the graph.
- Fix the incorrect string comparisons, the application name is always lowercase.
- Add some apps that are known to have incompatibility with VSFilter.

This commit is based on a patch by clsid.

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Source: https://github.com/mpc-hc/mpc-hc/commit/1836020640a29511f8c0931783f112695cd58752