Renamed new socket options to be clearer

* ZMQ_REQ_STRICT was negative option (default 1) which goes against
  the standard, where defaults are zero. I renamed this to
  ZMQ_REQ_RELAXED.

* ZMQ_REQ_REQUEST_IDS felt clumsy and describes the technical solution
  rather than the problem/requirement. I changed to ZMQ_REQ_CORRELATE
  which seems more explicit.