Node: remove --with-shared-libs

There's no guarantee that the version of V8 packaged by Homebrew
is compatible with what the current version of Node expects.

Closes #19686.
node: inline npmrc script
Overwrite broken symlinks with --overwrite

Closes #19480.

Signed-off-by: Misty De Meo <mistydemeo@gmail.com>
redland: add sqlite dependency

Closes #19657.

Signed-off-by: Misty De Meo <mistydemeo@gmail.com>
pax-runner 1.8.5

Closes #19694.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>
czmq 1.4.1

Closes #19692.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>