SLPVectorizer: An in-tree vectorized entry cannot also be a scalar external use

We were creating external uses for scalar values in MustGather entries that also
had a ScalarToTreeEntry (they also are present in a vectorized tuple). This
meant we would keep a value 'alive' as a scalar and vectorized causing havoc.
This is not necessary because when we create a MustGather vector we explicitly
create external uses entries for the insertelement instructions of the
MustGather vector elements.

Fixes PR18129.

radar://15582184