HPCC-9240 Workunit monitoring is "lumpy" and too aggressive

Running workunits not created by the local user should not have the initial
"aggressive" polling pattern.
When polling is started on several WUs at once, the calls should be staggered
a bit to help performance.

Fixes HPCC-9240

Signed-off-by: Gordon Smith <gordon.smith@lexisnexis.com>
Merge branch 'HPCC-9240' into HPCC-9204

Signed-off-by: Gordon Smith <gordon.smith@lexisnexis.com>