Revert "Use no cancel transfer functions on windows in callback_wait"

This reverts commit 8f6acad8ec11fa68e31447e4de9e2ce49c2bf16a.
Different windows+usb combinations respond with varying levels of reliability wrt timeouts so use a nominal extra 40ms before cancelling transfers that fail to time out on their own.
Statline before is too long on icarus that doesn't have monitoring.