pg_upgrade docs: don't use cluster for binary/lib
In a few cases, pg_upgrade said old/new cluster location when it meant
old/new Postgres install location, so fix those.
Per private email report
pg_upgrade: fix -j race condition on Windows
Pg_Upgrade cannot write the command string to the log file and then call
system() to write to the same file without causing occasional file-share
errors on Windows.  So instead, write the command string to the log file
after system(), in those cases.
Backpatch to 9.3.
Message style improvements
Fix contrib/cube and contrib/seg to build with bison 3.0.

These modules used the YYPARSE_PARAM macro, which has been deprecated
by the bison folk since 1.875, and which they finally removed in 3.0.
Adjust the code to use the replacement facility, %parse-param, which
is a much better solution anyway since it allows specification of the
type of the extra parser parameter.  We can thus get rid of a lot of
unsightly casting.

Back-patch to all active branches, since somebody might try to build
a back branch with up-to-date tools.
Add SQL Standard WITH ORDINALITY support for UNNEST (and any other SRF)

Author: Andrew Gierth, David Fetter
Reviewers: Dean Rasheed, Jeevan Chalke, Stephen Frost
Sync ECPG with WITH ORDINALITY changes