autoopen and autounlock are no longer optional
Declutter O menu

options with obvious setting that AFAIK nobody would change are now set in file, not in game

It includes color, tombstone, hitpointbar, hilite_pet, safe_pet, fixinv, mouse_support (with curses), showborn, ignintr, use_inverse, show_dgn_name and confirm
opthelp fix
enable paranoid_trap as default