Disable r252840 when ZFS TRIM is enabled (vfs.zfs.trim.enabled=1) and really
disable TRIM otherwise.

r252840 (illumos bug 3836) is based on assumption that zio_free_sync() has
no lock dependencies and should complete immediately. Unfortunately, with our
TRIM implementation that is not true due to ZIO_STAGE_VDEV_IO_START added
to the ZIO_FREE_PIPELINE, which, while not really accessing devices, still
acquires SCL_ZIO lock for read to be sure devices won't disappear.

When TRIM is disabled, this patch enables direct free execution from r252840
and removes ZIO_STAGE_VDEV_IO_START and ZIO_STAGE_VDEV_IO_ASSESS stages from
the pipeline to avoid lock acquisition.  Otherwise it queues free request as
it was before r252840.
Block reporting of ZFS features for suspended pools.

Before executing any subcommand, zpool tool fetches pools configuration from
the kernel.  Before features support was added, kernel was regenerating that
configuration based on data always present in memory.  Unfortunately, pool
features list and activity counters are not such. They are stored in ZAP,
that normally resides in ARC, but under heavy memory pressure may be swapped
out.  If pool is suspended at this point, there is no way to recover it back
since any zpool command will stuck.

This change has one predictable flaw: `zpool upgrade` always wish to upgrade
suspended pools, but fortunately it can't do it due to the suspension.