ISPN-3704 StateTransfer's PutKeyValueCommand may trigger remote get

Rework the remote get conditions and deal with tx and non-tx caches separately.
ISPN-3666 Fix CI failures regarding L1 issues

* Changed L1 invalidation to ignore leavers
* Also removed extra redundant invalidation method from L1Manager
ISPN-3852 Add a section describing the configuration for the java hotrod client
ISPN-3688 Add Hot Rod protocol version 1.3 description in user guide