used "hasMany" when I defined the association in the
HostRequestGoHomeNote class.

Also, had a Date conversion issue because I have to match up go home
notes by date and name, i.e. there has to be a guest and a host request
for the same kids on the same date. The UI prompts the user for the date
only without time component, but it was being stored with the current
time as well when converted to a Date object. I had to trash the time
component before storing.