Simplified!

Discovered simple-xmpp https://github.com/arunoda/node-simple-xmpp/ which is much more appropriate a tool for what I am trying to do (at least right now) and makes so much of the stuff I figured out over the past few commits almost irrelevant (though it was a good way to learn a tiny bit of xmpp message structure).

now sending response from the murdule back.
Loading murdules.json and files, not yet routing into them. Next step is to create a delayed echo with a setTimeout and send the message to both to make sure this part is working okay.
Merge branch 'master' of github.com:rmdrimmie/Murdock