[oracle] fully working quoting for date/time/datetime/timestamp columns
introduce a (better) update_lob_value as a write_large_object replacement
- handle blob/clob parameters the old (non JDBC 4) way for compatibility
- do some type matching based on value type when column is nil (compat)
share get_time helper among adapters + use update_lob_value with oracle
use update_lob_value with ms-sql + tune code doc a bit
override log on AR 3.0/2.3 to accept 3 args - thus PS logging won't fail
re-build adapter jar