common/admin_socket: fix leak of new m_getdescs_hook

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
osd/ReplicatedPG: don't leak Session refs in do_osd_op_effects()

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
common/RefCountedObject: take cct for debugging
osd: debug Session refs
debug refs on Connection
msgr: use ConnectionRef throughout

Make RefCountedObject a private parent of Connection so that users are
forced to use ConnectionRef whenever references are taken.

Many methods can still take a raw Connection* when they are using the
caller's reference but not taking their own; this is cheaper than
twiddling the reference count, and the lifetime is still well defined.
Local variables generally use ConnectionRef, though.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>