Speed up object bulk insertions

@benbjohnson please review

This speeds up bulk event insertion, especially in the case where many separate processes are sending PATCH events to skydb in parallel.

The problem was that sky's logic was:
```
for each event
  find table
  lock relevant servlet
  put event
  unlock relevant servlet
```

This PR flips that to:
```
find table
group all events by servlet
for each servlet
  lock
  put all events
  unlock
```

This exponentially decreases lock count and table lookups per batch write.  On my laptop this speeds things up by ~20% or so with 3 threads writing simultaneously to skydb.

It also writes the event count written back to the user on successful batch write.

I have 3 test fails I'm uncertain about, and for me on `unstable` the OpenTest already fails.  I'll clean those up and anything other feedback you have.