recover if boblightd is disconnected while movie is playing

we used to do this okay, something went wrong in the process :)

if boblightd is restarted, for whatever reason(local or remote), addon never recovers. with this we reset to all init states and recover as soon as we can connect to boblightd 


@Memphiz, please check if your 91fb1cf8825b39adeb0c3f6b5671b2ab3ec2633a is still fine.