Adjust COPY FREEZE error message to be more accurate and consistent.

Per suggestions from Noah and Tom.
Mark vacuum_defer_cleanup_age as PGC_POSTMASTER.

Following bug analysis of #7819 by Tom Lane
Prevent "\g filename" from affecting subsequent commands after an error.

In the previous coding, psql's state variable saying that output should
go to a file was only reset after successful completion of a query
returning tuples.  Thus for example,

regression=# select 1/0
regression-# \g somefile
ERROR:  division by zero
regression=# select 1/2;
regression=#

... huh, I wonder where that output went.  Even more oddly, the state
was not reset even if it's the file that's causing the failure:

regression=# select 1/2 \g /foo
/foo: Permission denied
regression=# select 1/2;
/foo: Permission denied
regression=# select 1/2;
/foo: Permission denied

This seems to me not to satisfy the principle of least surprise.
\g is certainly not documented in a way that suggests its effects are
at all persistent.

To fix, adjust the code so that the flag is reset at exit from SendQuery
no matter what happened.

Noted while reviewing the \gset patch, which had comparable issues.
Arguably this is a bug fix, but I'll refrain from back-patching for now.
Create a psql command \gset to store query results into psql variables.

This eases manipulation of query results in psql scripts.

Pavel Stehule, reviewed by Piyush Newe, Shigeru Hanada, and Tom Lane