kie-remote: minor refactors
(cherry picked from commit f5b02c56fe19394c8541aa1367f14debdf377427)
kie-remote: fixed and improved the JMS API

- messages are limited do a (property-based) max retry limits
- transacted receive + send behaviour implemented
(cherry picked from commit 8fc4ca2d563b77c65403bfd7dead2db8e1dc9cfb)